Why are moms so busy? As soon as you carry that tiny individual in your womb, your life changes forever! Busyness becomes your lifestyle. And many times, there is little you can do to make your busy life better!
I am a busy mom and a coach. My job is to help busy moms like me write and self-publish their first book!. But before they can achieve this goal, they must first clean up their schedule to create the time for such a task. But we need to understand some avoidable things that may make moms so busy.
Now, creating time is not a thing, as we have a finite amount of time. Time is one of the few things that makes us equal. We all have 24 hours and must fit everything we need to do within that 24-hour bracket.
If you are a mom, you are busier than most people! You also have a 24-hour timeframe. And must schedule your time like everyone else to put in all the essentials.
When you became a mom, you must have sacrificed a lot. You may have to sacrifice your time, energy and other resources. Those sacrifices are rewarding. But you should also invest in self-care. If you pay attention to your care and improve the quality of your life, you will have a lot more to offer your children!
One way to care for yourself is to reduce the amount of work you do. If life gets too busy, overwhelm sets in, and you become discouraged to move forward with any other goals like writing your first book! Let us look at why are moms so busy.
You love your job as a mom. You love your family. And your mind keeps racing with what to do next, when and what is for dinner, and what can you do to make everyone comfortable and happy. And most times, you omit one person, Yourself. You find every reason to be busy, and here are my top four reasons why this may be the case:
I know the factors here do not represent everyone's situation. Some moms are busy because they cannot get help. They may have children with health challenges with no help in sight. If you are struggling, our prayers and heart go out to you. You are a great mom! Check with the authorities where you live to see if there are any relief programmes for you. Get all the help you can get!
Remember: Mommy's life is rewarding. Being busy is not a bad thing if you stay within your limits. Overwhelming may be a choice you can avoid. You are human, and you cannot do everything. Concentrate on what is needed and remove the non-essentials.
We can never eliminate everything that makes moms so busy, but you can reduce the busy to just what is necessary.
And before you go, I help moms like myself become self-published authors. If that is you, please get in touch. I can't wait to work with you to get your book out in at least 90 days! Book an assessment, and let's get started. You may be part of the moms-so-busy group but you can also find the time to do something for yourself, and that is self-care.
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